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Yes, after arrivals come the lazy art of accommodation...

Then suddenly, you are face-to-face with the unavoidable "Where Do WE GO From Here?"


- So???

You have passed the tests of the initiations, now you both have a mutual relationship which the two of you know that you're both even more than enough to each other...

All is well and you both are having happy times and fun together...

Suddenly, it comes a time, you ask yourself - "Where is this relationship going?"

We are happy but is this just a passing page of our lives?

Or is it more?

What you're racing towards is that magic word called "Commitment"...

But not just the plain commitment of mutual exclusivity, you are glancing at the possibility of mutual exclusivity joined by loyalty and of course the sanctioning of appended legal traditional controls, bindings...

A Marriage! As if such a move would be and could mean the highest form available of validating each other's feelings and union as one in a official and traditional way. We are dealing with Pomp and lots of, lots of cute "belief and language" of this species (collections and collections of our "we've made it all up" vaguely important stuff)...

So after instant consideration, I reply...

- Not necessarily!

Marriage means nothing if hearts do not validate the relationship freely, willingly and au natural. People like to fool themselves that a bunch of mainstream invented traditions of this species can defy change and the passage of time.

It cannot. People will always stick together because they mutually feel it that way and not because of some tradition, some marriage agreement invented by this species.

All people and all things bow down to changes and such includes money, wealth and this species, we all. But in a mutual love relationship, people freely, willingly and au natural, they choose to change together rather than apart.

That's all.

The famous question of where is this relationship going, it can offer many different answers to many people, however the best answers will always be the ones in which the people freely and willingly mutually love and care for each other and come what may. Trust me on this, folks...

Mutual Love always comes/happens with Mutual Caring...

And it either is and for life...

Or it simply never was.

But wait a minute, what does it happen when mutually loving and caring folks go their separate ways?

When it happens, it is because the personal focus has shifted to another meaningful person, however in such instances, mutually loving and caring people are a lot more understanding of changes, of the passages of all evolution which all existence demands.

Separations are nothing to fear, they free us to new experiences which will fulfill our hearts...

The so-called changing/shifting of personal focus is always a new beginning and a chance for exciting new times, new friendships.

Nobody loses if/when once family, then always family. Family members are not always close by each other but they are there for us when we mutually need and want them to be.

The only way and reason for such to be possible and doable is a firm and natural foundation of mutual love and caring.

Changes do happen and the focus of people, of their relationships may shift to different relationships, to different people...

However, if/when the focus of love shifts from one human being to another, it does not erase the mutual love that once was, it does not erase the mutual caring between two hearts.

Love never dies, the focus may shift but love remains.

That's why I have myself the firm belief and language that - "Once family, always family".

The rest is rather cheap, disappointing and forgettable, folks.


Sky a.k.a. JD Aeon

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