I say... A serious “Yes” to Happiness, folks!
I'm sure we all would think of saying YES to HAPPINESS!
But wait a minute!
I don’t fool myself, because the definition of Happiness absolutely "changes and varies" in Meaning, and in nearly everything, folks... It is because the definition of every person is Original, and well, we all have our own Hearts and true/free-Will to be and to remain honest/sincere to…
That is a sacred task of any lifetime, as our Society, its our many Cultures and their many Belief & Language coupled with associated Values & Ways of Conduct, they all challenge us all to conform to the will/plans and ways of Others.
In our journey to “Happiness”, some of us compromise important parts of ourselves for the sake of meeting Other meaningful People’s demands…
And folks, through/via that ugly & cursed door, in the end, it absolutely "ruins" everything and it becomes overkill for anybody "To Wing A Happiness", but missing parts of our own Selves that do count very, very hard!
It is easy to say Yes to Happiness when we are solo / alone, and with plenty of empowered freedom in order to live our life as we really and truly wish, none of any ifs, and/or, buts.
In the company of another human being, our individual Happiness and its success, they depend very much upon our Dignity and Bravery to share with each other who we really are and what true happiness really is for us, and all fears aside, regardless of all differences and cultures.
- Most couples, most people, they all fail at that.
Because, they really “do not know each other” very well at all, except for a bountiful share of the very Best Parts which most people are more than willing to share in order to promote themselves and their cultural idea of what successful is.
That dear folks, that is what everybody loves to share, their thought-to-be Best Parts!
In the end, the “Getting to know each other well”, it counts very, very hard!
That’s why you can level on the “Body”, as in fully naked with each other having fun…
But in order for that to last, to be really successful, you must also level on the “Mind”, as in holding nothing back, being 100% true, real and honest to the other human being, revealing YourSelf with all of your imperfections and flaws, with all your good and the not-so-good parts of WHO You Really Are.
Most people do not.
But folks, it all comes out in the wash of the passing of time and it ends relationships, it severs friendships.
It is usually very mishandled, because people are not at ease with any versions of themselves, and of their reality, which have not been carefully edited, prepped, sanitized and socio-religio-commercial-politico corrected & fully rehearsed for public dissemination and consumption.
The jam-session-unplugged-parts-you, the bootleg/unedited you, the real-you-without-any-camouflage does not come easy for most people.
I me myself prefer “Give me the whole of You and I will offer you the Whole of Myself equally!
And "If" we cannot handle that, we are NOT meant nor Ready for each other!
It is All or Nothing! Such, it happens to be true! And folks, it does prove "Itself" but only in the very end of any journey!
Get To Know Yourself first and only then you may chance and try to get to know Others too!
But be wise, don't accept any Wooden/Smoke&Mirrors Versions!
Sky a.k.a. JD Aeon