Straight off this week we enter into a transit between Venus and Saturn, a wonderful opportunity for grounding love more into the physical reality.
In classical astrology this is a key time for marriage proposals, events regarding love for the long term. A couple who got married on this date would be likely to last the long run, is the belief.
In reality, yes, Saturn is like an anchor energy and if we use it right it can be very beneficial.
Unfortunately many experience the shadow side of Saturn, which is heaviness and seeing the flaws of everything – pessimism and depression. And right now, the asteroid Lilith (the shadow aspect of the feminine) is involved – posing challenges.
Saturn’s Relationship Assessment – Is There Future Potential?
With Saturn’s influence on Venus expect love to be grounded. But if there are “structural weaknesses” in your relationship these are highly likely to become apparent or highlighted now. Old grievances are pushing to come out into the open thanks to Lilith’s involvement…
This is the universal energies’ pushing for you to resolve the weaknesses, find out how to strengthen your connection and find harmony so that you *can* share a lasting love. Or, Saturn may help you to end it altogether.
In a related way, Saturn transits are considered excellent for weight loss. This is all about clearing the excess, the unnecessary, the outworn. Clearing out old hurts and attachments to former lovers is another highlighted activity.
Did you know that energetic cords to past relationships is a block that holds many Twins back from reuniting? (Have a look here for more info: Twin Flame Monogamy – Are Twins Meant To Only Be With Each Other?)
Keep these things in mind now and what crops up during this period will make a lot more sense.
If your relationship is healthy, this will feel like a great period where love moves into the physical even more strongly. (And if you need some more insights, have a look here for an article on how to usher in Physical Twin Flame Reunion).
And yes, this is a supportive time for entering into a “marriage” or “marriage like” stage of a healthy relationship. The energies strongly support it.
Do You Really Love Yourself? Twin Flame Mirror
As the Sun moves into a square with Saturn the very next day, we see that if things aren’t going so well…
…If things aren’t moving forward the way you’ve wanted – what is blocking the physical world progress of your connection is your own self image, your identity.
There is something limiting about *yourself* you are being asked to release – so you can be free enough to love and allow yourself to receive love.
Saturn’s wisdom now is that your own perceived flaws, perfectionism and duties are holding you back. Causing you to unconsciously rebuff others’ attempts to love you.
Make sure that you are actually *available* to love and romance. Old perceptions and beliefs about yourself are holding you back more than you have realized.
Amplifying Love With Personal Intention
This week we’re receiving the strong message that being gentle and loving with *yourself* is what will open up your love connection.
Venus sextile Jupiter shows us you would benefit from amplifying the experience of love and romance deliberately and consciously before you attempt to draw this out from another.
Boost yourself up with positive mindfulness, happy affirmations, pampering, songs you love and memories of feeling especially romantic – as this powerfully aligns you with love.
When you go into an interaction from this place, you’ll draw out a completely different experience than if you head into it from a place of sadness, irritation or fear.
Even if the person you’re interacting with hasn’t changed a thing, your higher energy vibration will draw out a different reaction from them.
Unawakened Twin Flames Making Contact
As Mercury conjuncts Mars in Virgo this week, there’s likelihood of communication coming from the Masculine polarity Twin – especially so-called “Runners”.
We see that this person has for a while been nurturing a feeling of wanting more out of life, deeper experiences, to feel like they’re making a positive difference, that they have a *purpose*. They have been longing for higher meaning.
In this period, they gain clarity in that regard. Spirit shows us they are deliberately planting information in front of these Twins – likely the one of you who has been “unawakened”. Your guidance teams presenting to them information that helps them understand in a different way.
Articles, quotes, books, conversations that help open them up once more… To remember.
Are You A King Or Queen?
Later this week Venus joins up with the North Node at the tail end of Leo. This is about love as the soul’s development collectively. Love for love’s sake.
It shows us that love is the aim, love is the path, love is the purpose.
We’re not here to share love SO THAT… anything. We’re not set up to meet our Twin Flame BECAUSE others will benefit. We’re here to love for love’s sake. Love in itself is the aim.
We are here to love because love is blissful, enjoyable, lovely, loving, amazing. We are here to love love, our purpose is to love and be loved.
It’s as simple and as complicated as that.
And with this happening in Leo we see that our capability to love and be love greatly hinges on how we see ourselves.
Leo is the sign of romance, drama, abundance – Kings and Queens. It’s when we become the king or queen of our own lives, recognize our own greatness and worthiness – that’s when we become the most open to love.
Feeling worthy, feeling special, feeling deserving aligns you with receiving.
Many Twin Flames are unfortunately unable to attract a physical world reunion because of unconscious feelings of unworthiness. Feelings of not being good enough, or being wrong on some level.
Why Ego Isn’t The Villain It’s Been Made Out To Be
Spiritual ideas of “Ego” unfortunately complicate this greatly. Because we see here that “Ego” and love are not necessarily opposed. (Did you know that “ego” simply means “I” in Greek?)
Far from the villain it’s often portrayed as, spirit shows us the Ego is merely the regular human consciousness self that is working to help us “survive”. The analytical self. We would actually find human life difficult without it.
And yes, that means it’s by nature limiting – a “separation oriented” consciousness.
But Ego is actually a necessary mechanism for most human beings. To be able to function in a world full of others’ will and intentions.
A healthy sense of self and what our boundaries are, to be aware what passions we burn for and what we’re willing and *un*willing to do are essential to love.
If we’re “Ego-less” in the typical sense of the word, we’re the water flowing – open to everything and nothing.
This can be a big disservice to us due to us absorbing others’ material and take us away from our inner truth. In the Ascension stage of the Twin Flame Journey, having healthy boundaries and setting strong intentions is crucial.
Instead of seeking to “evict” the ego, which can destabilize and open us up to negative influence, work to “upgrade” the ego to serve you better.
Agape, Eros – Do You Know The Different Forms Of Love?
Unlimited love, unconditional giving selfless love is “agape”. But Twin Flame love is just as much about “erotas”, romantic passionate love. And in this love, we are kings and queens.
The ancient greeks had many words for different kinds of love. Above all Twin Flames are here learning about different forms of love, and mastering them all. All forms of love belongs in the Twin Flame relationship.
But without the passion of romantic love the flame can lose the oxygen that keeps it burning strong. The perception of separation can actually be a benefit if we channel it well, because it creates a magnetic pull to get physically closer.
Ultimately, the Twin Flame bond is based in Love. The problems show up when fear is involved.
When drama shows up, there’s fear involved. When running happens, there’s always fear involved.
What determines your connection is harmonious or fraught with problems is your energy vibration and your core beliefs. The actual hows and whats of your journey actually make very little difference.
It doesn’t matter what’s come before or what we call it – when your energy shifts, your connection and your situation begin to shift too.
Time For Passion – Resurrecting Romance
This week is a time for passion, and above all to make us realize there’s purpose to this.
Throw yourself headfirst into love, and not just your relationship but everything that lights you up.
THAT’s your true purpose.
As Neptune Retrograde still opposes the Sun, Mars and Mercury in Virgo we receive confirmation of this yet again. There’s an overhaul happening as regards what it means to be of “service” – what we perceive to be worthy and good for ourselves and others.
The so-called “Lightworker’s mission”.
Neptune representing the higher realms are challenging us to think bigger, to step into our eternal power as souls of light.
We don’t have to *try* to help and uplift and heal. When we love, when we center into our truth, we are effortlessly uplifting, healing without even having to try.
A fully awakened, enlightened person has positive impact on everything and everyone around them. And in that state, the Twin Flame Union is complete now and always.
One Twin Flame radiating fully from a high vibration of unconditional love can powerfully heal and uplift the other, without even trying.
Love is the question and love is always the answer.
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Thank you Cian! This helps! I learned about Twin Flames by experience-thinking I was going crazy as mine is not in my physical environment. I know the being but still. THis and all of your posts are so very greatly helpful. I wish I was able to reply more but having returned the work force full time has cut back on my online time!
Blessings of appreciation and gratitude for you!
You're most welcome.
No worries; don't sweat the small stuff. I don't expect replies, and your certainly under no obligation to provide any.
Do what you need to do, and go with the flow as best you can... ;)