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Adulting” Is an Indictment of Society, Not of Millennials

January 5, 2016 by 

Bashing Millennials seems to be the new national pastime. I see article after article about how they’re entitled, fragile, and above all, immature. Perhaps nowhere is this more noticeable than in the complaints against those who use “adult” as a verb:

I cooked a meal today – I’m adulting.

They actually expect me to adult for eight hours every day.

I’m adulting – I put on pants today.

It’s tempting to write off these complaints as killjoys who don’t get the joke, but the rants about how previous generations were holding down factory jobs, raising children, and fighting wars in their late teens and early 20s are meant to be serious indictments of people who won’t get with the program.

Part of this is the idea that the younger generation is always screwing things up, which has been going on at least since the ancient Greeks complained of “luxury, bad manners, contempt for authority, disrespect to elders, and a love for chatter in place of exercise.” And part is the sad fact that opportunities that were available to previous generations have disappeared. My father was a high school dropout, but at 21 he got a union job with a railroad and turned it into a nice middle class career that gave me and my brothers a good start on our own lives. Where would he work today, Walmart?

Please don’t make me adult today. Today I want to cat.

I’m probably the last person who should comment on Millennials. I’m a very late Baby Boomer who’s always felt like he belonged in Gen X. Beyond that, my mother said I was born 35 – I couldn’t wait to be an adult. There has never been a time when I’d trade the stresses of adulting for the restrictions and powerlessness of childhood.

With those disclaimers aside, I think there’s something at work here that’s worth giving some further thought. Criticizing Millennials for using adult as a verb isn’t a valid complaint, but the whole concept of adulting is an indictment of our mainstream society.

I’ve decided I don’t want to be an adult any more. If you need me, I’ll be in my blanket fort, coloring.

Millennials – and others – were told they could be anything they wanted. We told them to “follow your bliss.” Of course, we didn’t mean it. What we meant was “you can choose from any of the approved options that support our way of seeing the world.” We removed many (though far from all) of the blocks previous generations had based on gender, race, or orientation, but everyone was still expected to get a job, pay taxes, and contribute to the maintenance of the system, whether that system supported their bliss or not.

But the Millennials heard what we told them over and over again and assumed it was true. And then when it came time to be an adult, they didn’t like what they saw.

“So you want me to put on expensive, uncomfortable clothes, commute to a job, work all day five or six days a week for 50 weeks a year, all so we can ‘increase shareholder value.’ If I play this game really really well maybe in 20 years I’ll be an executive and make tons of money, but I’ll work even more hours. If I don’t, I’ll be kicked to the curb the first time ‘fixed expenses’ need to be cut so some executive can make his bonus target.

If this is being an adult, I want to be something else.”

They told me to dress for the job I wanted, not for the job I have. So now I’m sitting in HR in my Batman costume.

Of course, some bought into the game. They like playing the game, or they can’t imagine anything else. Some, though, are subversives – using jobs in the corporate world to fund their deeper pursuits.

Others are outright radicals, working to wipe all the pieces off the board and start a new game with different rules and different goals.

In his book The Earth, The Gods and The Soul, Druid and philosophy professor Brendan Myers discusses the return of pagan philosophy during the Renaissance after a millennium of Christian domination. Those who began the Pagan revival weren’t Pagans, but they dreamed about what it would be like to be a pagan. Myers said:

People got tired of the austerities of Christian discipline and the misanthropy of the Doctrine of Original Sin. They maintained the appearance of being committed Christians, of course … But they dramatized for themselves a world that never knew Original Sin, and so still existed in a state of original blessing. In that imagined world it was no sin to ‘dance, sing, feast, make music, and love’ … and despite the heroic efforts of puritanical counter-Renaissance activists like Savonarola, the box would never be shut again.

The Millennials – and Gen X’ers and a few Boomers – who don’t want to adult are imagining a world where education doesn’t require massive personal debt, where health care is a universal right, where making sure everyone has enough is more important than making sure a few have the ability to become obscenely rich. They’re imagining a world where providing for yourself and your family doesn’t cost your soul.

If you haven’t grown up by 50, you don’t have to.

If you think people who don’t want to adult are lazy, you haven’t been watching some of them pour hours and weeks and years into making and perfecting their arts. They’re not averse to work – they’re averse to meaningless work that makes the rich even richer. If you think they’re entitled you haven’t been watching them work to feed the homeless and to advocate for policies that would eliminate homelessness. If you think they’re fragile you haven’t been watching them pick themselves up over and over again after the system smacks them down for being unable or unwilling to get with the program.

Like the Renaissance-era proto-Pagans, they imagine a world that could be, even as though those in power insist such a world is both impossible and undesirable. Savonarola and Cotton Mather were wrong – so are today’s “free market” fundamentalists who support neither freedom nor markets.

The classic definition of magic is the science and art of creating change in conformance with will. Right now I see a lot of people who want a different set of rules for our common society. But I’m starting to see more and more with the will to create a different society.

The West in general and the United States in particular are in the early years of the Long Descent and neither a revolution nor a rewriting of the social contract can stop it. But there will still be more than adequate resources to support a decent life for everyone, if we have the will to demand it, and to create it.

Millennials and others who don’t want to adult aren’t being immature. They just don’t like the mainstream society’s definition of “adult.” And sooner or later, they’re going to change it.


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Comment by Gyhldeptis/Zaria Acacia on September 5, 2017 at 6:47am
I agree with Willaber I have 2 millennial children. They are so intelligent and that minimum wage jobs bore them and aggravate them when they have the abilities to be leaders.
Comment by Willabee on September 5, 2017 at 6:31am

My favorite line, "They’re not averse to work – they’re averse to meaningless work that makes the rich even richer."

There is no reason for any of us to run around like a flock of headless chickens for 8 hours a day serving ungrateful customers for minimum wage while someone sits at a desk signing papers and earns our annual income in an hour. Don't get me wrong, I support people making big money! But I don't believe in the unjust distribution. I think the current business model is antiquated and needs readjusting.

I recently started my own business for this reason. I realized that it doesn't matter how much love, care and effort I put into someone else's business; I will always and only make the lowest wage they can assign me. It's not worth watching people become millionaires from the weight on my back. I have big dreams and big goals in life, but they certainly don't involve slaving on someone else's clock to line their pockets.

People see millennials as this lazy group of complainers, and don't get me wrong, there are plenty of them! But as the millennial generation progresses, you're going to see more and more of them become business owners and entrepreneurs. They seem lazy, but when they're passionate about something, their tenacity is unmatched.

Comment by Gyhldeptis/Zaria Acacia on August 15, 2017 at 10:50am

I pray they do,as I myself as an old soul..do not appreciate societal norms.

Comment by Grigori Rho Gharveyn on July 7, 2017 at 1:43am

we're gonna have a revolution.... oh yeah! 'they' said the same things about 'our' generation fifty years ago... it's a cultural defense mechanism that maintains order through conflict and domination. The thing is, if you don't buy into it, it is powerless to stop you thinking whatever you like. Anyways, we know the revolution succeeds, but we still have to share responsibility for making it happen. The 2090's are looking good. There are still institutions of learning, but they have learned to nurture individuals rather than oppress them.
Dreaming is a big part of creating this change, so if people are caught day-dreaming instead of 'adulting' we say: kudos!

love, the grigs...

Comment by Cian Rhys on June 26, 2017 at 4:19am

Comment by SunKat☼☯ on June 25, 2017 at 9:54am

Very well said Cian!

Comment by Cian Rhys on June 25, 2017 at 12:37am

Here's the thing though.... I'm not completely unsympathetic; I actually agree with the "them" on some points.
(When I say them, it is a generalization; I'm fully aware that not all behave in such a manner; but I think it would be fair to say a majority of them do.) My opposition derives from how they are acting. Rather than challenge ideas, beliefs, and social constructs, through maintaining integrity and practicing what they preach, rather than attempt to persuade others, they compete in the Oppression Olympics and seek to marginalize and oppress others, while sperging out about how they are marginalized and oppressed. The amount of hypocrisy is baffling. Further, it's completely counterproductive.

I see this primarily as a fail from the Institutions of Educations that have essentially indoctrinated these kids to think and act as a Hive mind; as well as alack of proper parenting. Then there is the fact that many of these young adults are intentionally being radicalized by those who wish to impose totalitarian economic and social systems, and institute a homogenized world-wide culture & civilization. Those at the top of the "power pyramid" promote diversity and multiculturalism, but what they really want, are easily controlled drones who all think the same. This is an outright assault on personal sovereignty, and theses "kid's" are being used as pawns, by the Global Elite.

In order to change the world, you have to get your head together first.

The world as we have created it is a process of our thinking. It cannot be changed without changing our thinking.

If there is no transformation inside of us, all the structural change in the world will have no impact on our institutions.

I wanted to change the world. But I have found that the only thing one can be sure of changing is oneself.

Comment by Linda M. on June 24, 2017 at 10:27am

Isn't this true of any generation?  You always have the bad eggs, but give it 10 - 15 years, and we tend to look nostalgically back and say...'we were great, we had values and found our own way....but this younger generation expects the world handed to them.  I have a friend whose mom keeps saying, she wants the morality of the 50's back.  Morality is about the same....there may be a bit more nudity now, but people tend to be people, the good, the bad, and the indifferent.  But when we get older, we tend to see and remember only the good parts.

Comment by Cian Rhys on June 23, 2017 at 10:27am

In general, "Millennial's" are the Generation of narcissism and entitlement. Instead of engaging in debate and dialectic, with those who have different ideas, they seek to silence those voices. They claim words are violence, while condoning, supporting, and committing actual physical violence.

SJW's claim to fight for equality, by marginalizing those they oppose. They label those that do not agree with their ideas, as x-phobes, racists, and worse. If one happens to be a white male, that doesn't reside in their echo chamber, they are labeled as being a privileged, misogynistic, member of the "White Patriarchy"; and if they are female, they have "internalized-misogyny".

They call people "Nazi'"s while resorting to the same tactic's that actual Fascist regimes utilized. They promote Socialism/Marxism/Leninism/Communism, but are seemingly ignorant of the 100+ million lives that perished due to those regressive ideologies, and the amount of oppression, that those who survived, had to endure.

3rd wave "feminists" complain about micro-aggression's, video games, and a non-existent gender wage gap; while real issues, such as sex trafficking and truly abusive actions like, genital mutilation, go unmentioned. They protest again a supposed "college rape culture", while at the same time, support, and ally themselves, with a militant cult of personality and political doctrine, that actually does promote a culture of rape. They call our President a sexist misogynist, because of a crude, but honest comment, he made years ago; but have have no problem listening to speakers at a Women's march spout off obscenities that would make even our President blush.

Modern "feminism" is favoritism masquerading as equality; and modern feminists are simply Socialists in sensible shoes.

They promote the "Welfare State" which has become little more than an extortion racket for enforced-charity, that is widely exploited and abused. Rather than commit their own time and resources to actually helping people, they demand the Government do it for them. How nice, they get to feel good that people were helped, without actually having to give anything up, themselves. This false sense of morality they posses grant's them license to live a life filled with double standards. What’s wrong is wrong, right? No. Their skewed perception of right and wrong allows them to believe it’s okay to do wrong, but it’s not okay for anyone that does not agree with them.

Many who claim to be "Liberals" constantly stake a claim to some moral high ground, which is laughable considering the vast divide in what they claim to believe, and how they actually, act. These people do not even understand that freedom of expression, freedom of association, and the right to own firearms are Liberal concepts; but also that Capitalism, is essentially a Liberal system.

These are just a few examples, of multitudes, that I could comment on.

From what I've witnessed and experienced, vastly more often than not, their asinine rhetoric is based on feelings, rather than facts and logic. By and large, they have embraced the Dunning-Kruger effect and live in a sustained state of cognitive dissonance.

Physical incarnation isn't meant to be easy. This planet is for the brave and courageous; only the strongest souls can "make it" here. Demanding "safe spaces" only shelters people from the complexities of life and of the evolution of consciousness, and that promotes a false sense of security. Security is an illusion; no one, no matter the situation, or circumstance, is ever completely safe, while they are physically incarnated. Adversity and challenges are part and parcel of the Human experience. This universe is based upon the concept of duality. We are able to distinguish light, because of darkness. What would the sun be if it wasn't for rain; what would love be if it wasn't for pain? We are more able to enjoy those things, not despite their opposites, but because of them. Yes, living on this planet can be very chaotic and painful at times, I'm fully aware of this fact, as I have dealt with it my entire life; but without Chaos, nothing in this Universe would exist. Sorry Virginia, real life is not all puppy dog's & ice cream; the sooner that is accepted, the better off one will be.

There are certainly aspects of modern civilization that need to be corrected; such as the Police State and the corrupt financial system we live in; but the way they are addressing these issues is beneficial, and only serves to promote further division. Social change cannot be forced; it will never work. The only lasting changes to be had, are those that are gained through mutual consent. It is no different from how Planetary Consciousness works.

As long as they attempt to control what people are able to think or express, I will oppose them every step of the way. It may be tactless, but candidly, as long as the special snowflakes continue to act like petulant, spoiled, brat's, they can get fucked.

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